I've said this numerous times but this year has been really rough for me body image wise. With the rise of Instagram and "fitspirations" it's hard to not compare yourself to others. Almost every female that I speak with has some sort of body image issue. It doesn't matter if they weigh 120 lbs or 220 lbs. If they are a size 0, 4 or 22. This is a MAJOR issue that I see. I try to be transparent and not only show the good but also the "bad". I'm not lean all the time. I usually vary in weight 5-7 lbs but always wear the same size clothes. It's not that I "quit living this lifestyle" for part of the year but it's just that sometimes I don't care about abs or lean legs. Sometimes all I care about is traveling, hiking, and living life. I'm not going to sit back and tell you that you can drink and eat whatever you want and still be lean because I do not think that is the case but you can live this lifestyle, enjoy your life and still be healthy. You might not have a six pack but who said that having a six pack is healthy? Who defines that? To me healthy is when you are eating healthy the majority of the time, staying active, and living life to the fullest. Don't get caught up in girls who post pictures of themselves partying and eating and drinking whatever they want and then the next 5 pictures are pictures of their abs. Everyone is different. There are different body types. Metabolism is different. People have different LIVES. Do you work in an office but compare yourself to a trainer who is in the gym all day? You can't compare yourself to others - it's like comparing apples to oranges. You could have 2 people, same height and starting weight, eat the same things each day, drink the same amount of water, workout the same each day and still get different results! I'm not telling you to come up with excuses for yourself but DO NOT compare yourself to others.
I feel like I bloat and hold onto water weight as soon as I eat something with too much salt or have too many treats but some people (because of their body type or a million other reasons) don't do this. You have to find out what works for YOU. This isn't a quick process. Maybe you can indulge in a treat a day and it doesn't have any effect on you. Maybe you can indulge in a treat per week or maybe just one per month to feel your best...just be patient with the process!
For the sake of your sanity, relationships, body image, and overall well being - get rid of your scale!
If you insist on weighing yourself I would try to only weigh once a month and once a week - MAX!
I have been reading articles on the Miss Indiana stories and I LOVE this quote from her...I really can't say it any better! “You can’t worry about the girl standing next to you because you’ll never be that girl,” Diehl said. Your body is a gift and you have to love it and have that confidence because that’s the only thing you can do. You can’t worry about being somebody else,” she said. “You have to be yourself.”
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